Posted by
w17366
20 yrs ago
i am just wondering how he will respond if seeing my birthmark(big and black on the waist) and the mark after an operation(under breast), i don't want to take another operation to move them(cause the pain and the risk), i am worrying about it, sisters,what can i do?
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oj
20 yrs ago
Don't worry about them, they are part of you and i'm sure he's gonna love them as much as he loves you. Knowing men, he probably won't even see them.
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Hey I have scars from an operations that I received as a result of an accident years ago and my boyfriend loves to kiss and massage them ... plus it helps me feel more confident about myself ... so don't worry. I was very worried much like yourself but as he said it is not the scars that make the person but the depth of ones personality.
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If the guy has any problem with your marks then he doesnt love you.
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OJ's right - men generaly don't notice these things unless pointed out.
And if he can't look beyond the marks/scars, he's not worth it.
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tia
20 yrs ago
Exactly. If he loves you, the scars are not going to matter at all.
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if he loves u, he will see these marks/scars as tatoos.
I have lots of scars on my body~
My trophies from falls, hahaha~
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oj
20 yrs ago
It may be different but after having two children by C-section my husband calls my scar my crooked smile.
Additionally, i love seeing scars on people it distingushes them and it's part of their history. A scar is something that is only unique to the person who has it, so like i said earlier, please don't worry.
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ya,i feel much better and more confident after reading all of your kind suggestions, you know especially in summer i cannot even wear some beautiful small clothes without sleeves or bikinis,but now i realize the relation between him and the marks,i will not worry about that any more, anyway i hope my beloved one could love my "tatoos":)
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I have a 5-inch slash vertically across my belly from a major operation, and for me, it is my own style of BODY ART.
Your birthmark and your cuts add character to who you are, so feel confident about having them. Celebrate those marks!
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my girl friend has a patch on he lower back.. the skin is very thin and you can see her veins.. first time i saw it looked like a spider web tattoo... thought it was pretty sexy... guys take things with different opinions mind you but hey .. like they said above.. love you and he won't care
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