Posted by
cathy_hk
20 yrs ago
Met a guy over a year ago, we are good friends, had a couple of intimate experience long time ago but nothing after that. During these time, I was actually dating another guy for 6 months and broke up a couple of months ago. The first guy didn't know that I was dating someone else and recently, he's asking me out, as in a serious relationship. I don't think I get over from the last relationship and ready for the next one. I had some feeling towards the first guy before, but really not sure whether the feelings are still there. A bit lost at the moment, he's a great guy and I don't want to hurt his feeling,but I don't think I'm ready for the next relationship. Should I tell him the whole truth?
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Kek
20 yrs ago
Strewth !
Quite simple.
Tell him you like him but you want space and time to think alone for awhile.Tell him you finished a relationship and just want to clear your mind and be sure.Tell him it will be better for him as he won't want you moping around,dithering.
If he's not prepared to wait for this,he's not the right guy for you.
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Yes tell him the truth. If he's truly interested he'll understand. Asking for some space and time is absolutely acceptable. If his feelings are hurt (ego) he will get over it.
(I am based in Hong Kong)
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