Husband and Transvestites???

Hi Gota Secret,


Sounds to me the reason he has kept this secret from you for all this time, is that he has been busy judging himself & grossing himself out too, & hasn't been able to figure out what to do, in the way of help/support.

This is perhaps what you both need. He probably is so confused, just as you are too. This is such an emotive topic, particularly when it's a little more than a straight dating website, and all the added emotions that a TV website will add to your current distress.

I'd suggest a counsellor, as there are too many emotions for anyone to deal with calmly. Hugs to you both

Interesting, this one. If it helps you at all, I can say I used to be registered as a member of Alt.com and used to browse through the profiles and photos for amusement, but I never contacted anyone on that site. There's some really weird profiles and photos on there, and I mostly used to browse through countries like US, Germany, India, Japan or some of the other asian countries like Malaysia or Korea, just to see the crazy stuff. I was never going to travel to those places to visit anyone. This is some time ago and I had a free membership. In the earlier days free members could contact others but I think they cut that out later and you had to have a paid membership to make contacts. But it can be kind of fun to see the different cultural bias of the profiles from different countries.


It may be hard to tell, but your guy's membership might not be as bad as it seems...

Ye, you're making too much out of it, give the Guy a break, he got busted fare and square and now has to live with the fact that you know about his sexual curiosity which is probably all it was... (most guys will check out anything interesting in the sex industry but this doesn't change the way he feels about you and he's not Gay).


Getting him to go and see someone, especially with you is NOT the answer. If you want to keep your man, drop it. Just make him promise that if caught again there will be no second chance.


Make him buy you something expensive and let it go...