Girl Friend Trying To Know My Friends....

Hi,


I have a girl friend who without my consent is trying to get to know my friends. I found out by accident while I was viewing her profile on one of the web sites. I like to hang out with different groups of people thus I have never introduced her to my friends. Am I wrong here to want to keep a few different set of friends in different groups? I've already had one bad experience. I had another girl friend of mine who does not really have any friends at all and she was going through a very tough time in her life. So, I invited her to hang out with my friends on a few ocassions and lo and behold, next thing I know, she calls my friends out to hang out (she didn't even call me). Now, she never ever calls me anymore. She just calls my freinds to arrange activities on her own. Any thoughts on this situation?

well-we dont have any 'rights' over our friends. While it is not uncommon to feel proprietary-she isn't doing anything wrong, perhaps you feel used by the first friend but it doesnt mean that your other friend is like that?