Posted by
sadman
20 yrs ago
Hi,
I just married to a woman who has a two years old baby girl. I really love both of them. However, something has happened and we are now always arguing about a issue, which is, whether or not to have another baby. I love kids, and I am treating her daughter like she is my own. However, I would also like to have another one, but she refused. She said she doesnt want to have another kid. I am sad and struggling.. what can i do? I need some advices from a woman side.
Thanks!
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Raincatcher is spot on in stating the concerns that your wife might have regarding having another child. I do have one question though, why are you having this conversation now? Didn't the two of you discuss this issue before you decided to marry?
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sadman, sorry to hear of your dilemma. raincatcher said it all.
here is a suggestion: why don't you ease up on the pressure for now, and spend the next two years showing your wife that the three of you make a great family - you and your wife are good partners and parents, and you truly love your little stepdaughter like your own flesh and blood.
show your wife that you are committed to your family and that you are not going anywhere and that you are the best father she could possibly want for her children.
then your wife will see that it is worth bringing another child into your family. your stepdaughter will probably be a big help too - by then, she'll probably want a baby sister or brother. :-)
best of luck!
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raincatcher > right on....i have a kid from my previous marriage and that is exactly how i felt....therefore, i have made it clear to my bfs, no kid if we were to get married...period!
;p
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