Posted by
riverdeep
20 yrs ago
I am in love with a man who is getting divorce...
We met one year ago, he was separated from his wife at that time. He said he wants a new relationship and ready to move on...
We liked each other and started dating; but when things were getting seriously,I mean feel closer, he started to feel confused and wondering whether we should continue to see each other...
He said he can't handle a new relationship and a divorce at the same time.
I don't understand what happend....
I still like him and but I don't know what to do.
Rgds,
Scarlet
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Easy, it's called a rebound effect. He was in an unhappy relationship and thought he knew what he wanted. (You found him when he was "on the rebound" meaning when he bounced off the wall from his first relationship.) But once he was out of the relationship, he finds that maybe what he thought he wanted may not be what he really wants. You can't force him to figure it out by forcing the issue. Back off and give him time and space to figure it out for himself. Otherwise he will feel so much pressure that he'll just call it quits for sure. To be honest I'd guess there's only a 20% chance he will stick with you no matter what you do, but a 100% chance he will dump you if you push him.
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yes, I think he needs time and space to figure it out for himself.
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