He wants to talk about Money

Recently moved out here with my husband to be. Which involved quitting my job. We were making equal amounts then. Fortunately i have found employement in Hong Kong. though my pay is fair he is making significantly more now. The problem is he is CHEAP, and I am on the other end of the spectrum, save a little buy a little more. We're supposed to sit down tonight and set a budget, the thought of it just makes my skin crawl. how do get through money talks w/out killing each other?

I would say the number one thing is to get yourself a copy of Smart Couples Finish Rich by David Bach. And both of you must read it!


From the Publisher (abridged):


Fighting about money is the number-one reason for divorce in America. David Bach, a nationally recognized financial adviser, author, and speaker, knows that it does not need to be this way. A financial coach to millions through his seminars, books, and PBS shows, and a person who has helped thousands of couples overcome their money problems, Bach now makes his valuable tips available for everyone trying to navigate the complex joint-finance waters.


With a uplifting, motivating, no-nonsense style, Smart Couples Finish Rich covers a powerful combination of strategies that helps couples work on their finances as a team. His easy-to-use tools and advice include:


Busting the Myths about couples and money



How to stop banks and insurance companies from ripping you off


Achieving both partners' goal and dreams


How to avoid fighting about prenuptial agreements, trusts, and estates


Addressing every couple—younger or older, married or not, straight or gay—this is a comprehensive, positive financial lifesaver that will help couples of all ages and in all tax brackets communicate comfortably about money and start building a strong financial future together.