developing a personality

Hi, I have a question for all you folks out there. I am a down to earth, sensitive, emotionally attached person. I am also very expressive. My facial expressions give way to my feelings. I wanna be like those women who display an aura of dignity. Can it be cultivated. From the feedback from close friends my aura would be of pleasant easy to approach types and very friendly. I hate it. Somebody help! I don't like what I see in the mirror. This is not what I wanted to be. Dignity, grace, sensuality is what I want to be.

trust me its no ads or tv. I refer to dignity and grace since my husband shows me some ladies who have both and asks me to work on it. Its been 3 years now but I don't think I have been successful. I posted it here thinking maybe I could find a solution.

aquagal - I would rather meet someone who is "pleasant easy to approach types and very friendly." than someone who seems dignified, graceful and sensual - as they probably also seem cold, remote and hard to get to know.


I really believe the former is what attracts people, while the latter might impress some, but so would a brand name watch.


If I have the right person, you also recently became a mother. I think all of us new mothers are trying to figure out who we are - because life is different. Some days I wake up and think - is this really my life? But we all have to slowly adjust to our 'new' life and as a result there will be some changes to our personality.


From how your friends describe you, it is clear you have A LOT of positive qualities and a lot going for you in that area.


Your husband must think so too, after all it is YOU he fell in love with and married :)